the words we speak

i notice that a lot of people nowadays especially young people speak before they think, something that i find rather amusing considering the level of education nowadays that maximizes the brains of our young people. probably they're too tired to use their brains due to the constant education pressure. anyways, let's move on from this education debate thingie. so...how much value do you place on the words you speak? hopefully you understand that your words have great power...because they most certainly do. if your words are encouraging, you can lift others up; if your words are hurtful, you can hold others back.

the Bible makes it clear that "Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." (Prov 12:18 NIV). so, if you hope to solve problems instead of starting them, you must measure your words carefully. but sometimes, you'll be tempted to speak first and think second (with decidedly mixed results). things like this happens, even to myself, after all we are not perfect, but what we can do is to slowly and gradually improve and correct ourselves with the help of God.

when you're frustrated or tired, you may say things that would be better left unspoken. whenever you lash out in anger, you forgo the wonderful opportunity to consider your thoughts before you give voice to them. when you speak impulsively, you may, quite unintentionally, injure others. (now you know how serious it can be !!!)

a far better strategy, of course, is to do the more difficult thing: to think first and speak next. when you do so, you give yourself ample time to compose your thoughts and to consult your Creator (but not necessarily in that order lah!)

the Bible warns that you'll be judged by the words you speak (Matt 12:36-37). and, Ephesians 4:29 instructs you to make "each word a gift" (MSG). these passages make it clear that God cares very much about the things you say and the way you say them. and if God cares that much, so should you.

so, do you seek to be a source of encouragement to others? are you a beacon of hope to your friends and family? and, do you seek to be a worthy ambassador for Christ? if so, you must speak words that are worthy of your Saviour. remember to avoid angry outburst. refrain from impulsive outpourings. terminate tantrums (especially young people). instead, speak words of encouragement and hope to a world that desperately needs both. good day all of you !!!

quote of the day:

"Fill the hearts with the love of Christ so that only truth and purity come out of the mouth." by Warren Wiersbe