good girls like bad boys...so does God

there's this saying that bad boys usually attract good girls (good can mean a lot of things: good character, good looks, good attitude, as long as good lah) and i tend to agree to a certain extent...i think it depends on the age range you are in, the background you were brought up in, the environment around you and also religion.

you know...i came from a funny history where i wasn't brought up in the best of environment during my much younger days...then everything was ok...suddenly it wasn't so good, then good, then bad....u know the routine lah....it's like a roller coaster ride man

and so all these events shaped me to what i am today...i didn't know Christ till i was 12....now i am 19+10= 19yrs old (like i said in my earlier post, i hate maths) but it wasn't all smooth sailing...i had a few dark years of my life that wasn't so interesting...but now that i think of it ....maybe God put me thru it. (now, why am i talking about my self, oh ya...i'm supposed to tok about the good girl bad boy thing)

this good girl bad boy thing i am toking about, it is very much true during my dark years. i realised that good girls had something within them that they dare not reveal in fear that they might lose control and turn really really bad. while boys dun really use their brains when they are younger and therefore would let this dark side come out of them. sometimes we can control it...but sometimes we totally lose control...and only the power of God could help

i let the dark side rule for a few years....and thanks to my deep rooted foundation of God's word during my much younger years....i managed to come out of it....but many is still stuck and many has yet to try. i think i will know what to say to those who are stuck...but i'm not too sure about those who has yet to try. i think it all depends on ur personal character.

anyways....back to the good girl thing....there was plenty of good girls around me during my dark years and i come to realise the reason they liked to hang around me was becoz i reflected their dark side that was in them (u know lah...young ppl just wanna have some fun b4 they grow too old). the other reason was becoz they are totally bored of good ppl around them coz some how or rather in the society of young ppl, we tend to find charming, attractive, naturally funny guys & girls in the darker side of the world...and those in the good side tends to be slightly more serious (boooooring)

but you know wat ? God is also attracted to these ppl from the dark side (why you think he sent HIS SON to die for our sins) becoz if u turn someone from the dark side to the good side, not only does heaven rejoice....but the church has one more weapon of preaching the Gospel (TESTIMONY)...it is actually testimonies of real life ppl that touches others....on top of that ....experience from the dark side is an added advantage in helping to find prevention or solutions.

let me give u a scenario: trying to tok someone out of maybe let's say smoking
Scenario A
Dark side ppl : u dun even know how it feels, who r u to tell me to quit
good ppl : i may not know the feeling...i just know it kills....pls stop
dark side ppl : nvm....u won't understand anyways...can we tok about something else

u see....u lose their attention to listen to u

Scenario B
dark side ppl : u dun even know how it feels, who r u to tell me to quit
ex-dark side : who says i dunno ?
dark side : u know meh ?
ex-dark side : of course i know...i did it b4 but i managed to quit
dark side : sure or not ?
ex-dark side : yeh man, y would i lie...i could even make circles thru my puffs
dark side : walau eh....chun one or not wat u say ?
and it continues...

so u see....this is why former bad people can be very useful

now, by saying these stuff here....i am not trying to tell all of you to go and be bad, let God turn you around, and then be a powerful testimony...NO NO NO !!! dun be silly (pastor would come after me if i asked all of u to do this)

what i am saying is....God has HIS purpose for everyone, some people are meant to be good all the way, some are meant to stray off and come back but none is meant to be loss. coz Christ died for everyone and i mean EVERYONE whether you are good, not so good, quite bad, bad or very bad.

so... it is not just good girls that like bad boys after all....coz God loves them too and HE wants to use them all. i am not proud of once being bad....but i am glad that God took me out of it and is using my experiences from the past to help those in need now. i hope u find your purpose in God too. God Bless

p/s - anyone of you out there who needs help or advise regarding BGR, Drugs, Alcohol, Gambling...pls do not hesitate to contact me or the necessary bodies that can help u out. come out b4 it is too late.