5 C's in courting girls

this particular post may seem like it does not apply to me anymore as gone are my days of courtship and many of you know that i am now happily married with 2 kids and 1 more to come. but if u read on, it does still apply to me coz these 5 C's are ongoing practices that we need to work on in our lives, so whether you're in courtship or married or single, these 5 C's definitely applies to you.

before i go on about the real 5 C's that i am gonna tok about, would like to just reflect back. i remember during my days in girl courting, we used to tok about 3 C's (cash, car, condo). then over the years it went on to 4 C's & 5 C's (Career, Cash, Car, Credit Card, Condo). now i think it is 7 C's, not sure what the other 2 C's are (cool looks and castle???), maybe some of you can enlighten me as i am now out of this girl courting league.

now, do you guys really think that all the girls out there are all so materialistic??? of course not, your C's are not all that they are after (but of course if u had some or all of them, they definitely wouldn't mind, right girls?), there are actually more in a relationship than just the C's for example......

Chemistry
if no chemistry, how to like & love each other. u think still olden chinese dynasty times meh, where marriage is arranged by parents and chemistry comes later. you must definitely have good feelings for each other before you go on.

Communication
seldom in a relationship you see people not talking or interacting with each other right? you actually get to know each other in a deeper way (for example fave colour, fave food, fave kind of movie, style etc etc) through talking. part of duty and accountability also involves communication, this is something i am quite weak at and still working on (for example coming home what time, did/doing what said/saying what, bought what sold what, went where did what, ate what shit what, and all the whats and whats and whats lah !!!)

Composure
remain calm in all situations, when 2 people panic together things get crazy. try to be as patient and loving as we can whenever, whatever, however things has happened. a guy that can stay calm and be composed at crucial times are what girls love to see, so you all know what to do lah!

Characteristics
always be yourself, never pretend to be another person coz you can't pretend forever. a girl likes you for who you are, not for who you are not. if she wanted a jackie chan or tom cruise, she would have made her intentions clear. have your own style, your own character and just be truthful to yourselves

Compromise
other than religion that you cannot compromise, there are many other things that you can. let her have her way once in a while, let her win occassionaly, dun fight back all the time, swallow your pride once in a while....these are some of the things that we can do and trust me, it will make life much more peaceful, happy, joyful, fruitful and all the fuls

hoped you all learnt something, have a nice day all of you !!!